My WOMAN CRUSH WEDNESDAY

Good morning

Like I promised you yesterday, I am beginning my series on people who have had an impact on my life to this day and i have decided to kick my series of most influential people in my life with my best friend Jane

We met in high school and she was from a more improved side of the township and that automatically turned her in to a snob.  However her being the kind spirited person that she is, she quickly became that person that i knew even if my friends where not at school she was someone i would call my safe space. And soon it became evident that our friendship was written in the stars as she was and still is the most musical person i know, with a voice of an angel.  How we became friends is a story for another day, but this person changed my life. Before i met her i was a very short tempered brat and as teenage girls we would have arguments which none of us would win. I recall on this this one crazy afternoon we had an argument, I don't remember the details but i recall that it was petty and we were angry at each other as we parted ways. And the next day i woke up and told my senseless 15 year old self that i did not need her anyway.  As I arrived at the assembly grounds she was so happy to see me and she waved like someone who had not seen me in years, and from that very moment I realized that temper was a thief as i almost lost a sister and a friend over pride and stupidity and she became my go to for everything. she gave me her shoes when i did not have any. she bought me food when i did not have some. Jane taught me forgiveness, she taught me to give without expecting anything in return and above everything she taught me love beyond limits.

That is why is my WCW of choice now and forever, she is one person i feel deserves all the best life has to offer because she always offers her all...

I LOVE MY MOTSWI 💕💕💕 

Breaking out of my shell

Good morning my BELOVED

It is with great pleasure to let you know that as of tomorrow I will be taking through my personal journey of how I found myself, and got to be this vibrant and loving human being i have become. I will be sharing with you puzzles and snippets of my community of people and moments that have played a role in my Vaal triangle experience. I have had a pleasure of meeting trailblazers, ground breakers and trendsetters and i hope you enjoy this joy ride with me.

Ps; Beloved feel free to rate and comment on my post, I am dying to hear from you...

#ThursdayThoughts

I lay in bed and thought about the previous day and it came to my mind how people tend to make decisions out of the pride that come back to haunt them, as my former boss would say "You are shooting your own nose to spite your face." We make haste decisions and in the quest of being right and proving others wrong we find ourselves hurt, hateful and bitter.

To be a sacrificial lamb or not?

I am not sure if it's being sacrificial or it is being wise, but I'll say if something makes you happy and it ignites a spark in your life, if it is the epitome of your existence never let it go, not unless it becomes toxic then yes you'll have to remove yourself. But if it is responsible for your smiles and tears of joy, I say stay, stay, stay. We only live once and well we can't miss opportunities to live our lives to the fullest

Happy Thursday

Choose Day

Good morning my munchies, i hope you are having a great day and you have chosen the best only for today.

As for me today i have chosen forgiveness.  I have chosen to forgive myself for being apologetic about where i'm headed and those i have chosen to love.  I have forgiven myself for believing that i was a fool for letting myself to love them.  In all of that i have chosen to look back and smile At the reasons that has made me to fall in love with them,  So instead of kicking yourself for the choices you made in the past, rather look back and say" oh, well, I can't believe that i have lived long enough to have experienced that and wow I can't believe that I am strong enough to have survived.

I personally have survived a nasty employment system, I have survived a lying and selfish partner and yes I have survived in the mist of a failed business and debt that is hanging on my head.

In my eyes nothing is too great for us to overcome and the greater the battle the greater the ability we have to defeat it...

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Thursday Thoughts

Is vengeance really the dictator of our thoughts?  I ask because the other day i saw a grown woman leave her niece's daughter whose mother had just passed away, to stay with someone who lives with a different girlfriend every week.  And the her sole reason was that the deceased was disrespectful. And what left me broken was the fact that an 8 year old had nothing to do with her mother ways.  I mean she also has the right to ask her why her mom was a single parent?  However she doesn't know all that, all she knows is that her mother died and she is left with people who don't love her.

I am a sucker for love, I believe love creates all things,  I believe it was not because of love or the lack of love or even just a mere longing of it, non of us would exist but to my surprise being hurt and and seeking revenge is what makes us thrive.  So let me ask this are as we the Vaalians going to let revenge and pain be a way one will recognize us?  We are all capable of love and forgiveness and we can get all of that right we can make our community a better place not a place where all the bad stats come from.

Vaal just live, love and laugh

Vaal in her eyes

Vaal in her eyes is my personal journey as a girl who was born in the east rand.  My family moved her when i was only Four years old and i felt that i will never belong here nor even fit in as i was a Kathorus girl through and through however it took a drastic turn of events and i was transferred to Heidelberg and life became difficult and beautiful at the same time, i dared to do things i never thought i was capable of and yes i loved all of it.  I am a free spirited person and yes i don't need to conform to anybodies standards, but did i know that?  I think i forgot and all i wanted to do was to have a job and afford all i liked and loved.

To my surprised the more i grew on the work front the unhappier i became and yes you guessed right i was slowly becoming depressed it made sense to think about suicide as i watched my life become something i did not know.  I was in debt, I was underpaid and I overworked and coming home to Sebokeng was the best moments of my whole existence and going back was the beginning of a new episode of self discovery and in all those long trips,  I realized that i was blessed to have been awarded such and opportunity to be part of the game changers and trailblazers of this beautiful place.

I would love to take you on this journey and I can promise you that you are going to love it