Have you realized how we have things planned out when it comes to love? To everyone who is in love or the pursuit thereof, everything is cut and dry, you meet the perfect person, you love them with all of your heart, they love you back and you live happily ever after. However that is not always the case the people we love the most tend not understand or see how much we love them, you may love a person will all your might and go out of your way to make sure they know it but find out they think you are pathetic, desperate and obsessed, what we fail to understand when we are in love is that every person has his or her way of interpreting love and they also know how they want to be loved, sometimes you may love people so bad that your love for them drives them away. In such instances we happen to find our faults and work tirelessly to grow from them and become better people, but if you are improving yourself for the same person who left you because your love for them was doing more harm than good, chances are you are in for an epic fail because it's not about how you have grown as a lover but to them it will always be about your love for them, remember that while you were working on yourself they were also living their lives and they are also not the same people they used to be, on the other hand to them you are still the same person especially because you never moved on, the fact that you are a better man or woman is a sure sign that you are worse than you were before and therefore a danger to them, in other words what they see when they look at you they see a ticking time bomb. It is a good thing to love the same person, it shows consistency in your personality and it also proves that you know what you want, but be careful not to love people beyond your own existence, love goes both ways, be woke enough to understand that how great people are does not mean they are open to everything. Love often finds us when we're not looking because love is effortless and true.
Love yourself enough to wait for love that will love you the same way you love, it is greater if it's not taught...
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